first time I've posted for advice, but I've been lurking for a while. So been with partner for 10 years nearly, we moved to London 3 years ago so he could study at uni, he's half way through his masters. We've also just had our second child. He made a film on his last course, which is doing well and has been entered into festivals, the latest being in Europe, he is going with uni mates, with my blessing. My issue is I've just seen on his fb that he's actually just telling me it's a networking opportunity and really they are all just going for shits and giggles (will watch their film being shown then fuck the festival off for sun and beer) and that he'll have to find a picture of a festival to show me on the first night. He's leaving me with a 3 year old and a 6 month old. He been struggling with depression, stress, bad back for a few months and could do with a break. I don't want to tell him what he can and can't do because I feel we should be our own people as well as being in a relationship, but aibu to feel that I'm being taken for a mug? it's not the first time he's gone off with mates for a weekend, when I've been pregnant or had a kid or two.