Hi I have name changed for this for (I hope) obvious reasons.
I moved abroad with my H and young DD. I'm in a group chat (GC) with 3 ladies from the uk,
The uk being my home country but we've never met in real life we were good friends though and I had helped them through some things. I want to leave my H. He has been abusive to me in the past, I am frightened of him, They know this. I told the ladies in GC it was time to leave I planned to go to the uk back to my mum, I deleted my online accounts withdrew cash sold my phone and bought a cheap payg sim for international calls and got cheap phone for this. I left the ladies in GC with my phone number and email address then deactivated Facebook. One lady (unclear if others involved) has messaged my H, his mum, his gran, 3 of his current coworkers, his brother (who is lovely and knew what I was doing) 6 of his ex coworkers. I got the first plane fine with a stop on the opposite side of the country, due to take off for another stop with a stopover in Asia then onto the uk. Long flight but all I could afford.
But because they told my H and gave him my number he has forced me to go home I have had to travel back from opposite end of the country and am now back with H. He said he would phone the police and prevent me leaving with DD, I am at 'home' feeling so hurt and embarrassed this is happening. I just wanted to leave. I'm frightened to ask for police help they were called when I was in the uk he was hurting me the neighbours heard it I asked police to come in to talk and tried to get H to go to another room so I could talk to them but he wouldn't go I couldn't tell the police what happened with him there so I said everything was fine and we had just had a ticklefight. Policemen looked unsure but left it at that and went, it is so hard for me to tell the police what is going on and I feel so trapped. I had leaving planned out and somewhere to go etc but I cannot leave in this country I have no job no money nowhere to go and nowhere to help me. At least in the uk I have my mum. I'm so hurt this woman has done this to me especially when she knew what I was doing I have seen the messages she sent to H saying
"Hi I'm xx I'm friends with (my name) your wife, I'm very concerned about (my name) she is flying to (location) then going onto the uk with (dd name) I just wanted to let you know as I'm very concerned she left me in with her new number it is xxy"
Similar messages sent to lots of people who are now asking what's going on. Ive left Facebook deleted and just feel shame now. I was stupid to think I could leave. All I can do is make the best of it now he will never allow me to squirrel money away now he has confiscated my bank card. I give up. I started this message with a point now I'm just rambling. 