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AIBU?

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To hate seeing HTH at the end of a post?

41 replies

ssd · 11/06/2017 23:06

its all smug and self centered, like the person writing the post knows so effing much

I just want to shout FUCK OFF YOU SELF RIGHTEOUS TWAT

OP posts:
TheWitTank · 11/06/2017 23:07

I don't know what it means!

TheMysteriousJackelope · 11/06/2017 23:07

YANBU as I do it precisely because it is annoying.

HTH.

ProudBadMum · 11/06/2017 23:08

YANBU they are usually not hoping Grin

ImperialBlether · 11/06/2017 23:09

It means "Hope that helps."

I like it if they've written a daft answer, but not otherwise.

AgentProvocateur · 11/06/2017 23:09

I do know so effing much.
HTH. Wink

ssd · 11/06/2017 23:10

it means Hope This Helps

I know its meant sarcastically but sometimes its used to put the other person down and that pisses me off

OP posts:
TheWitTank · 11/06/2017 23:11

Ah thank you!

grumpysquash3 · 11/06/2017 23:13

But if you're genuinely trying to be helpful, you would hope that helped (wouldn't you?)

LogicalPsycho · 11/06/2017 23:13

Hope that helps?! Shock

It is, hope this helps.

HTH hun

KeepServingTheDrinks · 11/06/2017 23:13

it's usually used when they think the OP is being a dick though, so it's reinforcing their message. (was going to write "HTHs" at the end, but realized it would mean that you'd think I think you're being a dick, which I don't, so I didn't!) Grin

LogicalPsycho · 11/06/2017 23:14

'HTH' is annoying, in the same way that someone saying "Good for you.." can only ever sound like they're being either condescending or sarcastic Grin

DramaAlpaca · 11/06/2017 23:15

I think some people use HTH because they have tried to be helpful and don't realise how sarcastic it actually sounds.

Others, of course, do it deliberately as a put down.

It's best avoided really.

GoldilocksAndTheThreePears · 11/06/2017 23:16

oh i thought it was happy to help....

CheeseQueen · 11/06/2017 23:16

YABU.

HTH.

(Sorry, couldn't resist)

noschooll4mee · 11/06/2017 23:27

Oh .... I thought it was "Hit the Highway "😁

GuiltyPleasure · 11/06/2017 23:47

Sometimes posters can use it to make a genuine helpful response to a post or more often it's a sarcastic response.
It has to be taken in the context of the OP.
HTH Smile

TheSnorkMaidenReturns · 12/06/2017 00:03

I so often want to say HTH in real life Grin.

x2boys · 12/06/2017 06:37

i wrote it the other day on one of the endless election threads because i was pissed off increasingly hysterical threads appearing .

AristotlesTrousers · 12/06/2017 06:40

I always thought it meant 'happy to help' - sounds much more passive aggressive that way round if you ask me.

VivienneWestwoodsKnickers · 12/06/2017 06:42

I love it. It's up there with LMGTFY.

FruitBadger · 12/06/2017 06:49

I've used it before when I've thought what I had to say was relevant but off at a little bit of a tangent. Had no idea it might be interpreted as sarcastic Blush

Heratnumber7 · 12/06/2017 06:50

I though it was "Happy to help"

MoominFlaps · 12/06/2017 06:51

It's mostly written in response to ridiculous posts anyway.

EG: "AIBU? I called an unnecessary general election because I was cocky enough to think no one would vote for my scruffy opponent but they did and now my party members are being mean about me"

"YABU. HTH."

AuntieStella · 12/06/2017 07:06

It's disctinclty different usage on MN, isn't it?

Here it is either passive-aggressive or sarcastic, usually intentionally (occasionally newbie who hasn't lurked for long before pitching in)

And tend to assume that it's been posted to inflame, not to be condescending.

RedSkySuperStar · 12/06/2017 07:26

I also thought it was "happy to help" which I find even more annoying!!

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