My Ds was 3 in April and he still sleeps in our room, and 6/7 nights in our bed. I do love having him in with us, but we just get no sleep with his wriggling and kicking, we even bought a king size bed so we would have more room but now he just sleeps sideways, and we have less room! I have tried putting him in his bedroom with night lights, lamps kept on, even the big light left on (thought he might not like the dark) but he wakes up screaming that he wants to come in our bed and I can't see him upset so just snuggle him back in with us. At the moment he's got his bed in our room, we cuddle him to sleep then put him in his bed when he's in a deep sleep (takes 30-45 minutes) and then at about 11 he wakes up again and will not go to sleep unless with us. I asked him why he doesn't like to sleep in his room/in own bed and he says it's scary I asked how and he says he doesn't know and that he likes to cuddle. He is such an angel but I don't know if I can cope with anymore sleepless nights, or upset him by forcing him to sleep in his own bed or room. Anyone experienced this? Any tips?