Hi
I have one dd who is just over 1. And I feel like my sil lets her children treat dd like a rag doll. She has two girls 7 and 8 who always pick my dd daughter up even though they clearly aren't tall enough to walk and hold her (dd is nearly 2 stone and likes to try to wriggle away when she's been picked up) sil thinks it's cute and let's them walk around her house with dd. They live in a huge house with a lot of steep stairs and I'm really worried she would let them carry dd up the stairs. I've told dh to mention to her that we don't want the children carrying dd around the house (we don't mind them sitting on a sofa holding her or with close adult supervision obviously). But he says he can't find the right opportunity to bring it up. (His sister likes to storm off in a huff). He also hates confrontation so he might be avoiding it.... I don't think it should be a confrontation. I have a horrible feeling one of them will slip on the stairs and drop dd. Aibu to be worrying? Am I being a silly over protective ftm? I don't want to make a big deal out of something small but it's giving me anxiety. Would it be unreasonable for me to just plain tell her I don't want the kids carrying my child around. Tia
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To feel sil let's her children treat dd like a rag doll
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Bam16 · 11/06/2017 00:03
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