Ex-Nurse here. Loved the job & patients, but the politics…
There were a lot of BIG things where I should have left but it was a small thing that tipped me over.
Big things:
Finding out thanks to Agenda For Change that my newly qualified Staff Nurse was on a higher rate than me....
Been told to suck it up when I asked for extra staff as it had been seen fit to admit a floridly psychotic patient to a general med ward. Said patient was a risk to himself, other patients & staff.
Been harrased daily when off sick having been attacked by said patient (broke my arm in 2 places) when was I coming back, couldn't I do 'light' duties etc, no concern for me.
Been called in on a day off to write a statement justifying why I'd chucked a patients magazine. Patient had arrested, we spent 2 hours trying to get this person to the point where they were stable enough to move to ITU, seriously every time we tried to move them another crisis. Magazine was covered in blood so was a biohazard. But I had to give up a day off to write a statement.
Been told by HR that I wasn't entitled to compassionate leave for my fathers funeral, as it only applied to immediate family. …pointed out that I was unmarried and childless therefore my parents/siblings were my immediate family. Was told no immediate family was husband/wife/child. Thankfully Unsion stepped in there.
The constant emotional blackmail to stay late/ cover shifts etc.
As I was in the NHS so long I was on the top level of leave 42 days. I can honestly say I never got/took my entitlement. And no pay back/ roll over. My fault for not taking it, except I'd apply and it would be refused……🙄🙄🙄
The constant headaches & cystitis from dehydration. Management felt that any drinks at the nurses station was unprofessional, but not taking breaks was our fault for bad time management. Yea you try caring for 30 highly dependant patients with only 5 staff.
The tipping point…
Escaping to the loo 8 hours in to a 12 1/2 hr shift, pee so concentrated (1 it stung (2 if it had come from a patient I would have been pushing for IV fluids. And while peeing in pain taking handover for a patient…
I now work for a pharma, a bit less leave, double the pay, off sick, got flowers, OH have a rule that line managers do not contact staff off sick in case you feel pressured. Sick leave 6 months full pay, 5 years 80% pay.
Great pension plan.
And people wonder why well educated Nurses are leaving in the NHS in droves…