Re the mandated school dinners (& no option for lunch boxes), it was introduced when DS was in yr1, when the new ht started. The school raised money for a proper kitchen and they employ a chef. It's definitely a 'thing' that won't be vanishing just because I, one parent, cannot afford it.
The explanation at the time was that they catered to all dietary requirements and that lunch boxes were 'unnecessary' and caused division.
I remember it was actually written that 'for reasons of INCLUSION all children will now have school dinners'.
Quite how that will work when I have to pay the £17 a week come September, I don't know. It's not sodding 'inclusive' as any kind of benefit. As I now won't be able to afford a hot meal for DS at dinnertime. So by enforced 'inclusion' within the school family dining experience, they are breaking apart the actual family cohesion. They are prioritising school above home and by imposing this upon us, they are tipping us from coping to an unsustainable situation.
He will go from 7 good and mainly hot dinners a week at home, to 5 hot meals at school and great difficulty in providing anything more than a lunch box style meal at home (or pasta and a small amount of pesto I think?). He's ravenous after school as it is so has a 'sensible sandwich' at pick up. So how the hell does the rest of DS's day work now?
And as I'm sure some posters will say I must just miraculously make more money and it's a sign benefit cuts are working that I'm going to see my child suffer, here are the personal details: I'm a professional who used to earn higher rate tax worthy amounts, had the husband, the future, all of it. But now I'm a disabled single mother, lost my job as my work deliberately delayed putting in reasonable adjustments as they thought they were 'extra benefits' vs medically essential. So my health deteriorated massively and now I have no job and no way of working or supporting my son. We have no family and no way out. I'm relying on the end of my savings and in a few weeks I don't know what the hell will happen. i did everything right and am now being punished for it. I cannot continue to live like this but I have no choice. £17 a week is massive.
None of this is ok. I'm not a bad person or a bad mother. Don't persecute me or DS for my illness. Things are bad enough already.