Not really an aibu but hey,
Me and my husband have been having some difficulties lately. My depression has got a lot worse and I've been struggling with an additction to pr prescription meds so as a result I haven't been putting much effort into my appearance or my relationship and despite dh trying I've been pushing him away and He has felt unloved and unwanted. Completely my fault I know.
Sex has been scarce and usually only happens in the middle of the night when we wake up just a quickie roll over and back to sleep.
But today I was sleeping ready for night shift and he came up and surprised me and it was some of the best Sex we have had in ages and it felt so intimate and lovely. This is the first time in months that I feel good about myself. I feel loved and Sex and like we are finally taking a positive step forward.
Basically aibu in thinking that having and initiating Sex at normal hours of the day is an important part of feeling Sex, loved and wanted by your oh. I realise a lot of this failing is on my part due to my depression but I finally feel like I'm taking a step forward to feeling better and I think that if we can improve our Sex lives our marriage will start to get better?
Thank you if you managed to make it to the end 