To have a pet hate living with my parents?

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I love my parents to bits well I don't get on with my dad but that's a whole aibu but every morning and day the kitchen tables are not clean. Always water stains from making tea or crumbs every where and I'm the only the one that ever cleans it up. Arrrgh it's driving me crazy amongst other things.

Bit of context op? Have you had to move back in with them or never left home? Do you pay rent? Were they always like this?

Move out and get a home of your own then.

We do pay and if I could afford to move out I would

DD is that you

Who's the 'we'? Maybe your parents are enjoying turning the tables after clearing up your mess and wiping your arse for yrs!

Haha MrsJayy my dd might be posting this in a few years too.

Look you are all living together if something needs wiped just wipe it what do you want - your parents to do ? You could always say something to them

"I could afford to move out I would"

Serious question; do you not think you should have thought about finding a place to live before getting married and having 2 children?

If you were 17 and had no choice to live with slobby parents- then I might have a bit of sympathy for you.

You just sound rude and ungrateful to me tho TBH. Sorry.

So you can't afford to move out and your parents are kindly putting you up? Live with it i'mafraid.
Be glad your mum hasn't taken your key off you for coming home late, mine did when i moved back at 26..... i quickly found somewhete else to live

I did mean to come out sounding so rude. Of course I'm grateful for everything they have done for me.

Blimey ungrateful much op.

How bloody ungrateful

Maybe they're sick of you being there taking up their space? I wouldn't be impressed if my kids decided to start a family whilst still living in my house.

Saucy jack how do you know op has kids? They didn't mention this?

It's their table though! They can have it knee deep in crumbs if they so choose.

The best thing about moving out of your parents house is doing what you want when you want.

my son and dp coming home soon....will ask them to let me know anything that bothers them..always good to know

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Always handy when an OP doesn't care to provide any context.

Do you have a plan for getting your own place? Saving like crazy and a timescale. If you've got an 'escape plan' it makes it the niggles a bit more tolerable.
I'm sure they've got a complaint or two about you too. It's part and parcel of sharing accom,

And you posted about not using contraception so could easily have a third child living with them. Bloody hell. I'm sure they have a couple of pet hates regarding you too.

Stop being so ungrateful!

What happens if you don't wipe them off?

Yeah.... skip clearing up breakfast... see what happens...

Could you make a mini kitchen in your bedroom?

I'm sure they love having you and your whole family living with them.... don't be so bloody ungrateful

Hey don't worry OP, I'm sure the noise, mess and havoc that a 2yr old and a baby create doesn't compare with a few crumbs or watermarks!

Have you looked into whether you could get any assistance to move out? I would've thought you'd at least get housing benefit, tax credit and child support, you may find it possible to move out?