So, my sister gets married in a couple of months and so far we (my sister and bridesmaids) have been on a little holiday and have arranged a second 'proper' hen do in a few weeks time. Well, I say 'we' have arranged, but one of the bridesmaids has completely taken over every single little aspect of arranging the hen dos, even down to personalised t shirts. I'm maid of honour and in the beginning I said that I was grateful for her help, but would really like a more hands on role in the arrangements and wanted to be the main contact for the other hens and have the majority of responsibility. Even my sister spoke to her about it. Well, this fell on deaf ears because she ended up arranging the holiday away (I had to cancel the villa I reserved for us all), she's completely arranged the second hen do, booked every little event, arranged transport, has arranged goodies she's taking down, emailed all the hens and even taken all the payments. She even has her own personalised folders, notebooks and spreadsheets! I don't know whether I'm just taking it too personal or something, but I'm actually fuming with her. At no point has she really consulted anyone about it either, when we've contacted her about arranging stuff she's already looked in to it, or just done it. I would have liked the opportunity to arrange it for my sister myself, especially as we lost our brother when we were younger it means so much more. My other half says I should say something to her, but I'm so annoyed I just don't know what to say! Plus literally everything has been done now so it's not like I could even ask to do something (again) but I shouldn't even have to ask!! It's my sister!!im just going to feel so silly arriving to meet the other hens as maid of honour when I've done literally nothing for the hen, and I just feel like I've really let my sister down.
Any advice??