My first aibu.... I recently took part in an event in my village where I had quite an important role. It involved doing something that I am very nervous about doing and I needed support at the time. Firstly, my dm said that was I was doing was crap (not I was, but what I was doing iyswim). Then, my df refused to take come as he said he doesn't like those sort of events. I am quite upset with both of them, dm as she has put me down and df for not putting aside his prejudice to support me. My dh couldn't make it for a good reason so I would have liked family support. Fwiw, it went incredibly well but dm is guilt-tripping me saying I shouldn't be angry with my df (I'm more disappointed tbh). She is bringing up things that aren't relevant to use against me. Aibu to be cross?