Posted on here under a different name. In the process of splitting up with H after discovering he has had numerous sexual dalliances with escorts and also work affairs. I'm coping reasonably well and have just come back from a holiday in Greece with my friends.
I was treating my holiday as therapy, good company, sunshine, meals out and plenty of wine. One day my friends all went to the beach and I decided to stay by the pool reading. I was actually reading (on my kindle so nobody could see) Leave a cheater and gain a life. I was totally engrossed but heard a man at the side of me asking if the sunbed next to me was free.
To cut a long story short I got talking to him ,albeit with much reluctance on my part initially. Anyway, he seemed very pleasant and asked if he could meet me later for a glass of wine. He told me his gf of ten years had left him. So, I met up with him and had a lovely couple of hours. At the end of the evening we kissed but nothing more. It was his last night and he asked for my number which I gave him, not too concerned about giving my no as can always block these days.
So........since I've been home he's been messaging me and suggesting we could meet up in the future. He invited me to stay at his but has emphasised the fact he wouldn't expect anything and went as far as saying he'd sleep in camper van on his drive. I've been none commital but flattered by his texts as I'm quite a bit older than him. Today he sent me a photo of himself and I can't help but see he's got a ring on his wedding finger!
I haven't asked him about it yet and I'm not that bothered ( obviously I'm bothered about him being married as wouldn't be the OW especially after what I've been through ) as I'm not looking for a relationship but it concerns me. I've been lied to for years by my H. Is this what it's like being single?