Hi mumsnetters, i have a dilemna and need advice. So, my exh has completley walked away from all finances. Despite the csa chasing him, he has paid no maintenance for a year. He works full time. Our house has been empty and on the market for a year. He has maxed out the joint bank account, and i cant have my name removed as its in minus. He has failed to pay any mortgage payment for 2 years but expects half any profit on house! Im a single mom and have been stuck paying the od account fees and mortgage as he refuses to take any financial responsibility for, yet also refuses to sign house over to me. My solicitor has sent numerous letters for him to pay to no avail. My solicitor has advised it may cost me more in their fees to take it to court than the £6000 he owes me - so making it worthless. I feel im resorting to actually applying to judge rinder!! But i despise the thought of going on national tv, and the fact themoney wouldnt come from him - it would comefrom the show - but at least i would get something? What would you do? Just to add he is on all joint paperwork and i can prove it all. Its the dilema! Aibu to go on tv to finally get something back from the arse?