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to bugger off for 2 days with no kids and get pissed in a hotel

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starshaker · 29/05/2017 16:19

I need a break after a break up (I'm sure there will be people here who will be pleased about that). My babysitter is watching the kids friday to Saturday and I can do what the hell I want.

  1. get drunk and feel sorry for myself
  2. Explore a city
  3. go camping

I did look at a trip to rome or somewhere but flights don't work out so I'm sticking to about 4 hours travel at max. I need to do something other than get pissed because then I may do something really stupid. Im near Glasgow

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starshaker · 29/05/2017 17:00

blythswood is out my budget sadly. Im liking hotel film and relaxing though

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ceceliajames · 29/05/2017 17:00

I agree with spa! I went to my first one this year about a year after having my daughter. Felt so strange to just be sat there not doing much/going for a little swim/having a nice facial but I went home feeling so refreshed!

Hope you're okay after the break up Flowers

Benedikte2 · 29/05/2017 17:01

Whatever you choose OP I hope you have a good time. We all need some space occasionally and so seldom get it with young DC
Good luck

IHaveBrilloHair · 29/05/2017 17:02

The Central hotel in the station is lovely, go there and watch films.

starshaker · 29/05/2017 17:03

Im really not ok. If I had made a list of needs for the perfect man he would tick all the boxes. It was completely out of the blue and for no real reason I can see

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elevenswan · 29/05/2017 17:07

How about a trip to York? Restaurants, shopping, museums/galleries, and a pub for every day of the year. Takes about 4 hours on the train

Oopsthatstornit · 29/05/2017 17:09

Grasshoppers hotel beside Central station is comfortable, friendly and you get your own sky box 😀 Book direct and breakfast is included. Ask for a room on the station side for great view over the roof, and the comforting background buzz of the station announcer.

Then go for some nice food/shopping/nails done, or theatre/cinema/gig.

Forwardsforwards · 29/05/2017 17:10

OP im going to have a similar break in August for five days.

I'm excited & nervous in equal measure...it's very much needed after a painful decade in lots of ways, not least the end of my marriage..

Have a lovely time doing what you really want to do .....

LonnyVonnyWilsonFrickett · 29/05/2017 17:34

I wouldn't just get pissed by myself - you said you don't want to and it will maybe lead to trouble, so don't. Get yourself to Glasgow armed with a bucket list.

See a film in another language
Eat a type of food you've never eaten before
Go to a performance of a type you've never seen before - ballet, classical music, rock, indie, comedy, whatever
Walk down five streets you've never walked before
Take in a view you've never seen before (ideally by walking up a hill)

After all that you'll be glad to collapse with a couple of glasses of wine in your comfy hotel bed!

starshaker · 29/05/2017 18:43

I love the bucket list idea

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PotteringAlong · 29/05/2017 18:45

How about going south and going to Newcastle? Cheap hotel, look at the www.tynesidecinema.co.uk places to eat and drink.

starshaker · 30/05/2017 20:16

Well I've gone with the spa option. Going to gleddoch and have a couple of treatments booked. Wanted a massage but I've not long had surgery and they said I'd need a letter from my doctor so I've gone for a facial and foot treatment. Might go to the cinema on Saturday and a wander round Glasgow too

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MrsAJ27 · 30/05/2017 21:04

Good for you Starshaker sounds lush, hope u enjoy Wink

PotteringAlong · 30/05/2017 21:32

Have fun Flowers

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