Planned to go to the races for my 23rd birthday instead of a night out. Tickets cost 59 pounds which is cheaper than a night out. I've said I will pay for a chauffeur service to the event and back. For my group of friends birthdays we normally do a night out. For her birthday we planned to go to London and I booked a hotel she later cancled so I had to pay a fee to re book for another weekend and then pay to go on the night out locally. She's also asking to go on some nights out next month. I've always gone to every birthday of my friends I've never had a proper birthday party as friends have always been ill or I've been away. I'm really annoyed that she's now saying She might not be able to afford it I know she has the money I've offered a hat and a dress I know she's worn before if she's worried about outfit costs. She's also going to another friends birthday as well