I love my in-laws. They are great, don't interfere, feed us up when we visit and always makes nice cakes etc. Just really nice people.
Since DS was born 3 months ago, they obviously visit us a bit more. Generally that's fine,happy to see them, they love DS (first/only grandchild).
However, a few times they have wanted to come down fairly last minute, such as ringing the night before to come down for a out 11/12 the next day. A little irritating at times but okay, I'm happy to facilitate them. Today though I am so annoyed. They called at 10.30am, DP came up to stay they'd like to come down and just leaving. They will be here literally any minute as they live hour and a half away. I am fuming. I am on the go constantly, i planned to have today as downtime. Not worrying about housework, chores. Just mooch around the house and do things in my own time (as much as possible with a 3 month old) most taxing thing was putting a few things away and walk the dog. I wanted ONE DAY and now can't get that. Now I have to put on a smile nd make polite conversation.
We all met last Sunday for a day out so it's not like they haven't seen him for ages. I've done nothing but argue with DP since. He has apologised (didn't even ask if it was okay!) But I am too angry.
Is it so difficult to ask for ONE DAY just to do things of our own accord, no obligations (aside from baby obviously!), just to do nothing? AIBU to be so angry right now?
(Disclaimer: I'm just about to start second AF since giving birth so may be ever so slightly hormonal today 
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