I like to support my husband when he has a hard time at work but it's getting a bit too much now and bringing me down when he comes home. He had many jobs and finds them quickly but is always having problems when he gets a new job and constantly moaning about them when he gets home it can happen at least 4 times a week when he's In a mood AIBU to feel like this and should I just put feeling to aside.
Sometimes I just feel like saying shut the hell up but I don't want to be disrespectful but that's literally what's going through my head. It's just things that can be avoided talking about or ignoring.
It's affecting our time at home because I feel like that's all we talk about and he doesn't plan anything nice for us. I did mention that point to him once nice and calmly saying it would be nice if he did and he yelled and said I don't have time I'm working. I was offended because I work from home and look after the baby so I thought it was unfair. Plus he doesn't come home late he's sometimes back at home for 3/4 sometimes earlier if he hasn't had a busy day.
Anyway I don't know what to do because it's good he's concerned about work but it's overtaking everything at home.
B x