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Friend has reached a new low. wwyd?

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whatonearth21 · 24/05/2017 22:44

I've name changed for this as I don't want it associated with my posting history. A distant friend of mine is a member of a multi level management company (MLM). There are some legit MLMs but this one is nothing but a product based pyramid scheme.

She posts very little on facebook and instagram that isnt related to recruiting more people to be distributors. She makes everything into a fucking recruitment drive to fill up her downline and cream off more profits at the top from all the people at the bottom of the pyramid. Examples being: picture of 4yo on at dentist with a caption I am so happy to be able to work from home and not miss a moment with my kids, I love being a mummy, etc etc.

I've said subtle things such as going out to work does not a bad mother make and some people enjoy their job and going to work or don't want to risk buying into this but she is totally brainwashed.

I just ignore it for the most part and only read the genuine posts that aren't a hard sell for this bloody MLM. Every post has her grinning like a cheshire cat at how blessed she is and how amazing her life is and how happy this fake business has made her.

But tonight I am raging. She hasn't been around for a couple of days and then she posts this: see pic. It was accompanied with another picture of her grinning like a cheshire cat.

Everyone who has ever suffered depression (myself included, very severely in fact) will know this is total and utter bullshit and she is just using this to market her MLM and prey on depressed people who may struggle going to work. What kind of depression appears out of nowhere and is better in 2 days and you're back to normal? She is a lying cow and I find this despicable.

I've posted her previous 3 days posts then 2 days of silence and then suddenly she's had depression and is all better in 48 hours and back to hard selling her business to the depressed (who might actually be vulnerable enough to buy into it).

I feel like laying into her as this is a new low she has stooped to.

Would you say something or just leave it. It makes a mockery of anyone who has been genuinely depressed.

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Friend has reached a new low. wwyd?
Friend has reached a new low. wwyd?
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Justdontgetitatall · 24/05/2017 23:31

PLEASE comment underneath her post stating how disgusting of her that is to claim she's had depression and recovered in 2 days.

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Catherinebee85 · 24/05/2017 23:32

I'd have deleted her already.

Maybe inform her she can pack in the pyramid scheme and sell her depression cure instead. 2 days. Fucksake!

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whatonearth21 · 24/05/2017 23:41

Straight back from the 48 hour depression with this.

You go baby. Allez Allez.

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ALittleMop · 24/05/2017 23:54

totally desperate

anyone constantly posting emoji-tasms of drivel in that breezy "marketing" tone is NOT getting any takers

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SemiNormal · 24/05/2017 23:55

I'd post links to suicide hotlines and samaritans to her Facebook and bombard her with wall posts saying I hope she's doing okay now and managing her depression. I'd keep tagging her in posts with details of the latest studies on depression/articles etc. I'd text her, Whatsapp her and stalk her all over social media telling her I'm always there if she needs someone to talk to but has she considered therapy or anti-depressants. I wouldn't let it go until she blocked me from her life. I am a bit of a cunt though so you might just want to do the blocking yourself and be done with her.

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whatonearth21 · 24/05/2017 23:57

I am a bit of a cunt though so you might just want to do the blocking yourself and be done with her.

Fuck I laughed at that. Brilliant idea!

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Flyinggeese · 24/05/2017 23:57

Who is she actually addressing with these posts? Does she have hoards or faithful followers engaging with her? She's talking as if there are people waiting her next announcement.

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Flyinggeese · 24/05/2017 23:59

Ha! SemiNormal brilliant. Call her bluff...

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Nocabbageinmyeye · 25/05/2017 00:02

Just sit back and watch the number of likes her posts get, they get less and less until eventually they get no likes at all. It's embarrassing and desperate and she knows it too, they have to know. My friend did forever living for a while, she has copped her own likes recently and is now giving it up, thank God!!

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whatonearth21 · 25/05/2017 00:03

@flyinggeese I have no idea. Her facebook and instagram friends I guess. Maybe she thinks they'll tell people? The posts arent public so that limits the audience.

She gets lots of likes but no one really says anything or agrees with what she says or comments. It's easy enough to like a post, it means nothing.

Bluff calling is a good idea. I am tempted....

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SemiNormal · 25/05/2017 00:03

Don't forget to include lots of 'hun' too.

Oh you okay hun?

PM me hun, you got my number hun? Ring me if you need me. Don't do anything silly hun. Here is samaritans number if you need someone to talk to ***. Depression is such a horrible illness bless you hun. Grin

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SemiNormal · 25/05/2017 00:06

Add pictures like this too for maximum impact. She'd hate all this kind of thing amongst all her positivy/business/life is ammmaazzzing shite!

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SemiNormal · 25/05/2017 00:07
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Flyinggeese · 25/05/2017 00:08

Oh yes! Great idea.

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whatonearth21 · 25/05/2017 00:09

Grin

So funny.

I might reply with that pic.

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MrsEvadneCake · 25/05/2017 00:17

Keep posting links to the timeless Vie page on Facebook too. It's a group that uncover and trash MLMs.

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LolaTheDarkdestroyer · 25/05/2017 00:20

Hi 👋

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WomblingThree · 25/05/2017 00:32

This is one of the many reasons I don't understand Facebook. Why would you want to be friends with someone like that, and why would you leave her on your friends list, just so you can point and laugh at her on here.

I think Facebook has given people a distorted sense of what the word "friend" actually means.

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whatonearth21 · 25/05/2017 00:37

wombling this isnt about facebook.

We uses to be good friends before she got involved in this crap.

Now I cant have a discussion that doesn't involve this crap and now its getting dangerous in targeting the vulnerable.

She has bought stuff she cant afford because being in a mlm scheme isnt a job. It will collapse and then she cant pay her mortgage.

At what point do you give up?

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Rockhopper81 · 25/05/2017 00:42

How strange...she must've had that 'depression' that is miraculously cured in 48 hours...I've been battling mine for almost 6 months now and still feel shit, but hey, maybe I just need to buy into a crap scheme and things will be fine again. Angry

She sounds like the kind of person who would just assume someone who is depressed and/or anxious just needed to 'try harder - like her!' to get over it. My life, it's giving me the rage thinking about it...Angry

Seriously, unfriend and block. I totally understand what you mean about preying on vulnerable people though - there may be some who would fall victim to it. Hopefully they will see it for the utter bullshit it is.

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Rockhopper81 · 25/05/2017 00:45

SemiNormal - your ideas are awesome! Grin

Yes, see if you can get her to block you, that would be fun.

Like when you get a 'cold call' trying to sell you someone - I can't be the only one who likes to try and make them hang up on me??

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Rockhopper81 · 25/05/2017 00:46

Sell you something, SOMETHING, not someone...that would be an entirely different type of 'phone call and would get you into all sorts of trouble...

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whatonearth21 · 25/05/2017 00:52

I am tempted to sit and watch now though. Ive had words with her about it before.

You have got to be pretty desperate to post that and is a sign business is not booming.

I wonder if she'll be the way she was again after, it's like she's joined a cult.

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CreamCheez · 25/05/2017 00:55

I have a friend who got deeply involved with an MLM. Alienated all of her mates & only hung out with her new friends from the "company". We really missed the real her...
She's now moved to the other side of the world. And no longer mentions the "company" or associated pals on social media. Strange, that...

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TheStoic · 25/05/2017 02:52

I feel sorry for her. I think she sounds like she's struggling. If you can't bear to see her posts, and don't want to unfriend her, just stop following her.

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