4 days ago my whole family were involved in a major car crash. Luckily my children and husband have minor cuts, grazes etc... I took one for the team and seemingly absorbed the impact when the car drove into my door at 50mph. I have damage to my spleen and three fractures in my pelvis. My SIL ( who we took on holiday last month) has not called me, sent me a message or even an email.
She has a chaotic life and when things go tits up, she will call me and often expect me to bail her out. She will never call her mum ( my MIL) or my husband which has caused difficulties in my relationship with them as I often offer excuses for her behaviour or hide the truth for her. To give her credit, she has texted my husband to find out if we are ok but I kind of expected a slightly more personal approach. My inlaws haven't spoken to me either but I expect that from them. AIBU to expect more from her? AIBU to be pretty pissed off and a bit hurt?
( if you know me, please don't mention to DH!)