To expect people to say 'I love you' back to DS when he says it, and not go eewwww....

[SparklyGothKat]

When Ds says that he loves us we always say 'I love you too' He is really loving and loves to know that people love him too. When Ds says it to BIl, BIL say 'Gay!!!!' and Dh's mate says 'ewwwwwwwww' It really annoys me, as DS is only 9 and he knows what gay means but telling his uncle that he love him doesn't make him gay, and I am getting more and more annoyed with it, everytime it happens. It will get to the stage when DS will stop saying it, and I will be and when that happens especially if its down to his uncle and Dh's mate.

Anyway I have to go to bed, pregnancy tireness is a killer
night
x

hahahaha!!! Last night BIL came round and when DS went to bed, BIL gave him a hug and then DS turned round and said 'GAY!' before BIL had the chance....

LOL

Hadn't realised you were pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!

Who are you normally CAMS?? Am 6 1/2 weeks have a scan tomorrow.

Good luck for scan, Sparkly.

Very sad about your BIL's pathetic childish attitude, but your ds seems to have got the situation under control.

(My dd2 wants to be a boy when she grows up, so she can marry me... !)

Ellbell Thanks. He is very childish. Last night I put on a CD from the late 90s which had a lot of boy bands on it, he kept on and on about gays, and singing along but changing the words, like 'If you're not the one' by Daniel Bedingfield he changed the words in the corus to 'I don't want to be a gay' etcetc. I said I had concerns about him and he asked why, I replied that I thought he had a gay complex.... He shut up after that.

only read the op
you are not unreasonable. they are. think it is nice that he shows affection. think their attitude asys a lot about them.

oh and big CONGRATULIONS

Good luck for scan tomorrow. So please to her ds got in 1st with BIL I'd loved to have seen his face

Your DS sounds absolutely lovely. Your BIL sounds like he has serious issues. My DH is a fully grown man and quite happily says I love you to his brothers/Dad when they hang up the phone/say goodbye. Only yesterday BIL came to see DH at work, they hugged, both said I love you and one of DH's colleagues said 'oh how gay'. He's a nob jockey too (DH's colleague), just like your BIL. I hope your DS continues to be such a lovely affectionate little boy.

And good luck for the scan.

His face was picture, I was laughing and so was DH. Bil's face was like and he didn't know what to say. PMSL.

LMAO at your ds saying 'gay' to your BIL I would so loved to have seen the look on his face

@xxAbbieC omg stop resurrecting threads from 2007 wtf !

Why do you keep replying to threads from 2007

ZOMBIE 🧟‍♀️

@xxAbbieC

your advice is 15 years late

Geez, Abbie, why are you dredging up 15 year old threads. The little boy concerned is 24 now!

Third thread I’ve seen that Abbie has revived.

Maybe it’s a cry for help? They’re stuck in 2007? Only other explanation is they’re spectacularly dim

😂😂

@mnhq is there any way of stopping @xxAbbieC from the weirdness they are doing this morning?! Every thread I've clicked on so far has been a zombie that they have resurrected for no reason