To expect dp to plan something for the easter holidays?

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Ok background.

I work, dp works but he is a teacher. So he is off for two week over Easter, I have yet to request any leave.

every holiday I sort out what will happen. Quite often I take the kids away to see family up north for a few days, on my own, to ensure that dp gets a break (I don't think it's fair for him to spend all his holiday looking after the kids).

I am having a bad time at work and thought that it might be an idea if dp took the kids to see his parents for a couple of days for a change. Kids and his parents would love it. DP would endure it. He's now in a sulk.

AIBU? I would quite like a couple of days to myself. Also he hasn't initiated one conversation about the easter hols - for all he knows I am planning to work throughout.

unreasonable? no
unrealisitc? yes

(if your dh is anything like most)

I'd just like him to take reponsibility for once for seeing his family without me being invlved (I quite often visit his family when I am visiting mine as they live in the same area).