I would just like some opinions on whether I or by OH is been unreasonable.
We had our second baby 7 weeks ago. I had a section birth and I recovered well very early on. DH has had 3 nights out since DD was born one which meant an overnight stay in his mums on one occasion when baby was 2 weeks old. He also had a week abroad with work but would have a few drinks/food with his boss in the evening. Last week he invited friends over for food which I ended up doing, this week he wants to go out for a few drinks with his friends and then on the Thursday a work colleague is leaving and he wants to go out for that. I haven't had a night out yet even though he says I can go out anytime but I'm just not up for it really yet. I'm starting to resent him a little. I've had time to get my nails done but they're things I do during the day and I bring DD with me when DS is in school whereas he goes running twice a week on his own. The other thing that's really getting to me is DH is always tired and falls asleep on the couch every evening. We go to watch tv or a film and he's gone then wants to know what happened. I wouldn't mind but it's most nights this happens and then he suddenly gets a burst of energy to go out with his friends. Money is tight at the moment as I'm on maternity and I'm conscious of this too so whereas my nails would cos 20 every 3 weeks he would spend a lot more on nights out.