It's about taking cost away from the state by encouraging people women to care for family members more. It's about creating a profitable business model where interest will be part of the loan equation. This ultimately makes it more expensive for society as a whole. The lottery of it, makes it hard for people to plan for their future, or their children or grandchildren's future. There is a very conservative (small c) idea that you do try and help other generations and this is an achievement. Instead some people will be hit where others aren't. Getting Dementia will be 'failing in life's and will make a difficult diagnosis even harder to cope with. It increases the gap between free care and paid care and for some this disincentivises a long term plan for their care.
If you've got assets of £600,000 then have you wasted your life working hard when you could have assets of £200,000 and have the same outcome? When your neighbour might never face the same thing. Pooling the risk means that everyone with £600,000 assets has the same hit. It means that there is a reason to try and aim to get £600,000 in assets.
In some ways this system is better than current one, but worse than the one that was proposed and supposed to be coming in. It doesn't address the underlying problems of the lack of carers and bed blocking.
It's created a lot of anxiety because of the pressure it will create between generations. People are suggesting this is about greed. I beg to differ in that it's about undermining the goal in life lots of people have, it makes them fear more they might become a burden and you have people who are younger who had planned in a particular way now for their own future wondering how they will juggle kids, parents and perhaps grandparents and other relatives as well as their own care needs. The lottery aspect of it makes it even harder to do responsible planning. It undermines people's security.
In order to ensure that, there needs to be certain 'knowns' which is why spreading the cost makes more sense. It allows people to plan calmly rather than planning out of pure fear and uncertainty to 'hide' or 'lock up' their assets and security for subsequent generations in a different way.
Saying that people shouldn't rely on inheritance rather misses the point that there is a desire to look after your own that won't go away here. And also a fear that you won't be able to look after yourself never mind your kids if you are now middle aged. Maybe this is something that they have taken for granted but these are people who perhaps have been brought up with that expectation. They now find themselves wondering if they will 'fail' against that expectation because the plans they had in progress have been dealt a huge blow and they don't believe they will be able to fill in that short fall in the time they have before reaching retirement themselves. They will not 'achieve' the ambition of previous generations.
The policy isn't just about finances but also about cultural attitudes and beliefs and how this might shatter those and redefine people as 'successes' or 'failures' against how they were brought up to provide for other generations.
It's not just about money, though people will characterise it as such.