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To think our neighbours are ridiculous for paying this and refuse to pay my "share"

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Hiphopapotamus4 · 16/05/2017 21:20

A house on our road came up for sale recently (its empty at the moment, was rented) and as you do, I had a nosey at the particulars on Right Move. In the description in says that there is a service charge of £500 per year. I thought this was odd as we pay no such charge and it's not a flat or leasehold or anything like that so I couldn't figure out what the charge was for.

I ran into another neighbour who made a comment about the price it was for sale for so I commented that I noticed it had a service charge and how odd that was. Neighbour gave me a funny look and said "yes, well we all pay the service charge" I said that we don't and have never been told anything about it or asked for payment. I asked her what it was for exactly and she didn't really know but kept saying "we all have to pay it".

Now, she has obviously been and spoken to some of the other neighbours about this and they are now annoyed that we don't pay when everyone else does. They want us to start paying it so that their share becomes less. However NOBODY knows what it is for, they all just pay it without questioning it. I said I wouldn't be paying anything unless they can tell me what it is for and what "service" I am receiving.

AIBU to think they have all been a bit foolish to pay so much money without questioning it and that they should stop paying it/find out what it's for rather than ask me to contribute!

To be clear, this is a fairly normal road with no communal areas and no "services" (other than the usual bin collections etc). Apparently the invoice just says "service charge" and does not specify exactly what service it is.

(I am currently the "bad neighbour" and need to make amends - may have to bribe the neighbourhood with homemade chocolate brownies then convince them to stage a mass refusal of payment and demand for refunds!)

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TheNiffler · 17/05/2017 12:42

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WimbledonMum1 · 17/05/2017 12:42

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LozzaChops101 · 17/05/2017 12:43

My mother is her street's Roger, and she will clip your foliage without consent between parking monitoring duties.

AlpacaPicnic · 17/05/2017 12:44

I work for 'the council'... this thread is giving me ideas!

Kock up an official looking letter on our special 'council' headed paper, spend a few quid on stamps and wait for the money to roll in!

ApollO88 · 17/05/2017 12:44

Shameless place mark

MarthasHarbour · 17/05/2017 12:44

Just to add that my Roger masquerades as an Eric (but only on weekends Wink )

BiddyPop · 17/05/2017 12:45

Our street's Roger is actually Barbara (namechanged to protect the innocent!) across the green on the opposite cul-de-sac. House next door has been for sale for almost 9 months, when normally in this estate they take about 3 weeks to go "sale agreed" - lots of speculation about how potential buyers are being so put off the house....Grin

ExcuseMeButImHavingACrisis · 17/05/2017 12:48

COME ON!!!!!!!
I can't wait anymore!!!!!!!!! The suspense is killing me!!!!!

thatdearoctopus · 17/05/2017 12:51

Roger is chairman of the Neighbourhood Watch committee.

MaryPoppinsPenguins · 17/05/2017 12:53

I'm just about to move to a culdisac with an Actual Roger!

AnneElliott · 17/05/2017 12:54

How strange! The council may talk to you if you ask about the charge as a prospective house purchaser.

ememem84 · 17/05/2017 12:57

Seriously op I go on lunch at work and think "oooh I know I'll while away an hour or so reading mumsnet and eating sandwich. I wonder if there's been an update re the service charge..." and find...nothing. Very selfish of you to go to work and deprive the rest of us.

How very dare you.

I hope you've at least called the council and the estate agent. That's what we're expecting. Don't let us down. WinkGrin

HotelEuphoria · 17/05/2017 12:58

^ haven't read all the replies but I would have called the council, said I was interested in the empty property and am trying to establish the council tax banding and also the EA says there is a £500 a year maintenance fee payable to the council. Can they please confirm exactly what this is for, if in addition to council tax, before you make a decision to not really buy the empty property.

zzzzz · 17/05/2017 13:01

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RockPaperCut · 17/05/2017 13:01

Shameless place mark.

AlwaysHopeful · 17/05/2017 13:06

That's my whole lunch time gone and still no result! I can't work out which outcome would be worse - the others being scammed would be bad but OP getting a back dated bill would be awful so I'm hoping for a benign middle ground....

FWIW we have a Roger who is lovely... I think our "Roger" is actually called James-the-original-alpha-male

Jux · 17/05/2017 13:07

Hairydontcare, you're right about Roger being married to Margaret, not Jean.

Jean would never marry a Roger, she's after a Geoffrey or a Rupert.

CointreauVersial · 17/05/2017 13:08

Good suggestion, HotelEuphoria.

Because that way we MIGHT GET AN ANSWER!

nocampinghere · 17/05/2017 13:08

misses point of thread completely but- i pay £60/year for my garden waste bin.
my garden is TINY.
why is that double what loads of you pay?!

Herbella · 17/05/2017 13:10

Our Roger is called Michael. He polices the street under pretext of trimming his hedge. (A task comparable to painting the Forth Road Bridge). It is noticeable that when he and Rogerette (Micheline) go away at half term to look after the DGC the number of poops which are not scooped increases considerably.

MummyPigLovesAppleSauce · 17/05/2017 13:11

Don't mind me, just place marking for when op finishes work....

ACurlyWurly · 17/05/2017 13:13

Hours spent reading this...........

I want to be a Roger now!!

MrsSpenserGregson · 17/05/2017 13:15

Omg

I grew up in a cul-de-sac and my dad was chairman of the local neighbourhood watch committee. He wore red trousers, long-sleeved shirts (never short sleeves) and always a tie or sometimes a cravat if he was "off duty." He was an avid reader of the Telegraph.

His actual first name was Roger.

Ceic · 17/05/2017 13:17

I think that the £500 service charge is a legitimate Council charge for maintenance etc but that the council has been charging the wrong street for it all these years. The bills are meant to be going to Newbuild Hiphop Gardens not Original HipHop Gardens.

One Roger that I know about is defending this lighthouse from all sorts of legitimate visitors. Sad

Poisongirl81 · 17/05/2017 13:18

Not read all the replies.

Who the fuck is Roger? Is he a cunt or a good guy?