To think everyone is having sex but us?

[Cakeisbest]

DH and me have been together 30+ years so in our 50's now. We hardly ever have sex anymore as neither of us can be bothered most of the time. Menopause has certainly reduced my sex drive, and I think my DH just doesn't fancy me anymore. We are happy together but something is definitely lacking without the spark of attraction. Is everyone at it except us, or is this just an inevitable part of a very long term relationship?

30s and never have sex. Husband is too lazy so I'm looking to trade him in for a younger model

We've been married for nearly 27 years & last had sex on our anniversary 3 years ago - before that it had been sporadic for several years.

Our relationship is crap.

I don't fancy him at all theses days - because of attitude more than looks - he fancies me but does fuck all about the attitude & drinks too much.

I'm not. 27 and I think I've given up on the idea now. Certainly in this relationship anyway.

38, together for 16 years. since june we have treid 4 time, the last back in march. only 1 time has been to completion......
think im scared to try again

Aww bless you!
We're in our 20 s and we arent regular at all, about once every two weeks, we both work really hard and up to 50 hour weeks, so we sleep early at home,

But we re not unhappy,

if you're unhappy you need to talk and tell your partner what you would like and compromise :)

We are similar, compounded by me having pelvic surgery which can make things painful.

I think intimacy can be just as good as sex. A massage, touch of the hand or a hug, I would miss those things more than sex.