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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

I cant find flouncers corner so here will do

40 replies

Crankycunt · 14/05/2017 20:54

I already know the responses i am going to get.

But I had a very interesting email conversation about the freedom of speech in AIBU.

In their own words mumsnet want to:

"We know that AIBU has, over the years, developed a reputation for being something of a bear pit, but that's really not what was intended.

The topic is intended for posters to seek genuine, third-party insight into their dilemmas, or to crowd-check their own responses. We are finding that more and more people are actually being put off of posting due to the more aggressive responses in this topic.

We really would prefer AIBU to be seen and used in exactly the same way as the rest of Mumsnet - a place for interesting, constructive, thoughtful or funny debate".

See I take that to mean that you can no longer voice your opinion about what has been posted, if someone is being unreasonable you have to be nice and funny.

Are we no longer allowed to have a robust debate, no more straight talking.

Mumsnet is edging more and more into netmums territory. Its sad and you have lost a member. This site is now full of huns who cant bare to be told that they're wrong. There seems to be more sheltered people who cant believe that anyone swears.

Anyway, So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, good night.

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MovingOnUpMovingOnOut · 14/05/2017 21:52

Who are you? Who are you?

I literally have no idea who you are but you seem to be complaining you can't be a cunt in aibu? If so I have no sympathy and can only say...

Off you fuck cunty-chops Grin

NavyandWhite · 14/05/2017 21:53

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ExConstance · 14/05/2017 21:56

I started a thread to discuss the regulation of on line pharmacies on AIBU, intending that there be debate on a relaxed regime for commonly prescribed drugs to take pressure off GPs. Instead of that a bunch of vultures descended to portray me as the devil incarnate because of some minor observations on medicines I and my family had bought this way. A couple of weeks later someone made a near identical point on General Health and was being soundly supported. AIBU is just a hang out for vicious toady types these days, I now avoid it as being nearly as hostile as the feminist section.

Goldfishjane · 14/05/2017 22:00

I'd like to talk about online pharmacies
But I'm flummoxed that someone found the feminist section horrible, it's nice there.

toleybum · 14/05/2017 22:13

Channeling Tucker

I cant find flouncers corner so here will do
ShowMePotatoSalad · 14/05/2017 22:19

Everyone is entitled to state their opinion. No one is entitled to be abusive. That's the difference.

ScarlettFreestone · 14/05/2017 22:24

I consider myself fairly direct and straight talking and I've managed to post on MN for many years without ever having had a post deleted for breaking talk guidelines let alone receiving emails from MNHQ.

It's entirely possible to plainly make your point without being nasty or making a personal attack.

You might want to rethink what you consider "straight talking". If it's not acceptable on MN it's probably not acceptable in RL either.

Perhaps a break from MN might be useful.

Smeaton · 14/05/2017 22:24

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Lelloteddy · 14/05/2017 22:28

So you're throwing your toys out of your pram because you were told to stop being a cunt?
You'll be missed Wink

LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 14/05/2017 22:33

Who are you? Who are you?

Ronnie Pickering?

SoupDragon · 14/05/2017 22:44

See I take that to mean that you can no longer voice your opinion about what has been posted, if someone is being unreasonable you have to be nice and funny.

No, it means don't be a cunt.

MadMags · 14/05/2017 22:45

Ledkr flounced?? Why?!

starsinspring · 14/05/2017 22:46

A thread didn't go her way.

MadMags · 14/05/2017 22:55

I've just read her thread.

I have to agree with her about this place.

The user123456789 thing has really made it nose dive, and that's just the tip of the iceberg!

LineysRun · 15/05/2017 11:36

Ledkr's Chat thread (yes, a Chat thread) was infected with the 'how dare you complain about anything when other people would crawl over hot gravel to have your so-called problems' virus (#4 Yorkshiremen sub-strain).

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