Would this bother you?

[OverrSensitive]

I mentioned to DH that I may get up early and go to the gym in the morning but I have arranged to meet my dad at 10am and he is an hour away so in reality unless I wake up early I won't have time.

He just went to bed and said: "You are going out early in the morning aren't you?" I said I didn't know and he looked disappointed and said: "well are you going out or shall I?" I asked why it mattered and he said: "it's nice for me that's all!"

I get that it's sometimes nice to have the house to yourself but I resent being made to feel like a nuisance or in the way in my own home. It's upset me but he doesn't seem the issue. Would this bother you?

I'd be going to the gym and not coming home.

If usually all ok...could he maybe be stressed with work or somethibg and snapping at you without intention. My DH has done this before with stress at work...apologised next morning when realised had been an arse

I would be so suspicious after that - especially with the change in him

Could he be wanting to phone somebody without any chance of being overheard...?

I don't know he just seems irritated with me at the moment.

Did he mean 'well, are you getting up [setting alarm] or am I'?

Could he be be planning some sort of surprise? Do you have a birthday/anniversary coming up?
I doubt it's a wank. 'Are you going out or shall I?' would be a weird thing to say if he's not into al fresco self abuse.

I agree with Sunshine, I'd go out early and 'forget' something so you have to pop back.