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To ask when it's ok to stop inviting some one along to group events

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Nicpem1982 · 10/05/2017 17:02

I have a group of friends all with dcs the same age. We have in the past done lots of meet ups/days out play dates etc.

I feel that with one particular friend ours and our children's friendship has naturally run its course, shes cancelled meeting up both in our group or individually around 10/12 times since Christmas.

Some times she plans events then cancels them/some times me ot another member of the group plans events and she always cancels last minute for reasons along the lines of to hot/cold/tired/ just doesn't want to anymore.

She's now cancelled plans through to the end of July as she's busy, which is fine as I appreciate that plans change and people have their own lives :)

Aibu to now just stop inviting her and her dc to things I plan/organise? I don't want to deliberately exclude anyone but I'm fed up of wasting my time

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Kokusai · 11/05/2017 13:31

Yeah you can stop inviting her.

Maybe if you have something big and general like a big summer BBQ you can invite her.

Nicpem1982 · 11/05/2017 13:41

That's a good idea fetch

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