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AIBU to want to try and achieve something on maternity leave?

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Pregnantabroad · 10/05/2017 14:03

AIBU to want to try and achieve something on maternity leave (other than not killing my children obviously)? Currently on my third mat leave. I'm almost 5 months in and feeling restless. I am really busy but I still have more free- time than when I was working now that I've got naps sorted and they're into a routine (twins). I definitely don't want to go back to work early. I'm not bored exactly. I feel like I'm going through the same cycle as other mat leaves (let's start a blog, be active on Twitter, do something interesting on Instagram - have these thoughts every time). Don't know if I want convincing to actually do something, or to just be happy with my lot. Interested to hear if anyone else felt like this and what you did. Thanks xx

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Dishwashersaurous · 10/05/2017 14:10

Move house. It's the classic mat leave project

Pregnantabroad · 10/05/2017 14:13

Funny you should say that. We are trying to!

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Redredredrose · 10/05/2017 14:13

DP suggested I wrote a book on mat leave.

Spindelina · 10/05/2017 14:15

I wrote my thesis. Not recommended.

MGFM · 10/05/2017 14:16

I am doing a distance learning course and redecoration

redexpat · 10/05/2017 14:16

I did my family tree.

redexpat · 10/05/2017 14:17

Ooh there's a site called coursera with free internet courses. Could be fun.

glueandstick · 10/05/2017 14:18

How did you do it?! I was a wreck for the first year!

blackteasplease · 10/05/2017 14:22

My Aunt did write a book on maternity leave, with twins. Got it published and is now a successful author.

I'm not quite sure how.

I could barely manage to get in the shower.

honeylulu · 10/05/2017 14:24

I got through a lot of box sets!!

TheLegendOfBeans · 10/05/2017 14:25

Online courses!

Questioningeverything · 10/05/2017 14:28

My achievement is keeping the little people alive. I'm happy with that. But maybe you could decorate? Sort out the garden?

Ecureuil · 10/05/2017 14:32

I did a postgraduate diploma. If you want to do something, do it!

Zaberwocky · 10/05/2017 14:35

I'm desperately trying to finish my CIPD course before I start maternity leave Grin

There are loads of fun volunteer from home opportunities that could be good for keeping your mind busy.

Like many I plan to write a book! Whether or not that happens is another matter.

user1490734428 · 10/05/2017 14:41

Sign up to do an online course on Udemy or Coursera. Learn a new skill like dressmaking or DIY.

motherinferior · 10/05/2017 15:02

I went back to work.Grin

arethereanyleftatall · 10/05/2017 16:09

I got fit. Lots of walking with little one in a sling, plus yoga vids whilst they slept.

Meatbadger · 10/05/2017 16:46

I lost three stone and learnt to drive during my second mat leave.

First one I ate biscuits and went to baby groups.

Whatsername17 · 10/05/2017 16:52

I've watched the entire 12 series of criminal minds. I'm bored. I love dd2 more than anything but I'm looking forward to going back to work. This week's project is to do my Davina dvd during her naps.

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 10/05/2017 16:57

My boss learned reupholstery on one of her 4 maternity leaves because she finds babies really tedious.

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