So, a while ago we borrowed / was offered some money from my gran to pay for renovations / work to be done in our home. We set up a payment plan to pay her back and are doing so ! Near the end of work something went wrong and we needed a little more , we found a lump of the money through tightening our belts and saving but she then offered the little extra we needed to get works completed, we agreed this would be paid back by the end of may/June time and kept separate from our monthly instalment from original loan .
Now my husband needs a new car and has a loan coming to get one ( couldn't get one before for renovations otherwise we would've had one then ) which is affordable to pay back with very little interest , he wants to spend the whole amount on a car and I say we should first pay back my gran for her extra help as would then be difficult to pay both loans, which would still leave a good amount for a car , he wants to spend the whole lot on a car and add the rest of the money we owe to the instalment plan !!!!! This is unfair and going back on an agreement that was made
Aibu to be pissed off with him ? I feel I need to stand my ground on this one