Would this be silly?

[ScaredStudent449]

I had two good dates with someone, we stopped talking for a while due to house moves then met up again - got very drunk, he stayed at mine but nothing happened, both acted like a bit of a mess. I wished him happy birthday the day after and he said thanks - no other contact after...

We are both early 20s and both not had super serious relationships (although have had pretty much everything in between). I deleted him from social media after this as was annoyed at some of his pervy drunken behaviour

I did like him though and am slightly curious about reaching back out to him again. God knows why. I don't even care if he doesn't reply. Should I do it or is it completely desperate?

I'm sure in your early twenties you have the potential to do much much better than some one with 'pervy drunken behaviour' displayed on social meedja... makes him sound about 16

Forget him!

No it wasn't on social media!

To me, the night he was at my house.

But yeah ok I will forget him :)

Eew! Unless it was mutually consensual and enjoyed behaviour then definately forget!

As a lot of my school reports say... Can do better!

Ok thanks! He basically wanked in my bathroom and kinda pressured me into sex. That sounds a lot worse written down than it did when I visualise the night. Def moving on

I would go with your spidey senses, if he was that amazing you'd still be in touch, he made you feel uncomfy, you didn't want to associate with him.

I get you may be thinking is he better than nothing, but I'd say have more respect for yourself as you don't know if he speaks to lots of girls / women that way.

Don't settle, that is my aged advice, don't think oh well it's better than nothing. You want to be swept off your feet.

Oh op, he sounds awful. Absolutely avoid him x

He was very attractive and intelligent but yes will avoid!