Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

I've just been called 'Bonnie'

80 replies

user1493797837 · 06/05/2017 23:20

I've tried google. It says it means cute and gave the example of a bonnie baby.

AIBU to think this isn't a term that should be used for a woman nearing 30?!

OP posts:
XiCi · 07/05/2017 11:35

I'm in the NW. If someone said I was looking bonny I would definitely take it to mean chubby. As in bonny baby, a well fed, healthy, chubby baby.

LadySalmakia · 07/05/2017 11:35

Lancashire here - bonnie means pretty, lovely, with a side of lovely personality/cracking smile. It's usually got healthy connotations to it too, so whilst it definitely doesn't mean fat, I was called a bonnie lass as a girl but my skinny sister was more likely to be called pretty or stunner. (I'm not fat btw and wasn't then).

Marmelised · 07/05/2017 11:36

I'm from the northwest, definitely not fat and was a bit taken aback the first time I met my Scottish mother in law when she told me I was a bonny quine (girl). Bonny means plump where I come from (as in ' she's starting to look a bit bonny') so not usually a compliment. It was however clear from the context that she meant pretty not plump.

BenLinusatemyhomework · 07/05/2017 11:47

My parents are from the North East and they use it to simply mean pretty/beautiful however where I grew up in the North West it meant pretty but chubby.

ProfessorPickles · 07/05/2017 11:48

Bonnie doesn't mean fat as far as I know, only naturally pretty and beautiful.

I'd say chubby babies are bonnie if they have a cute face. But that's because chubby babies are gorgeous! But it's because they're cute not because they're fat.

So, bonnie = pretty

It's the best compliment in my opinion Smile

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread