I'll try to keep it brief but informative here:
At work, I'm arranging a conference. My own colleagues are reluctant to attend, but people from other places are coming, so my conference can still go ahead. (I promise this is relevant)
My allocated funding is pretty good, and when a male colleague asked me about it today, I told him it was a well funded project that is running for over a year and he should get on board if he can.
While trying to talk up the project, I made a joke about booking the local fancy hotel and spa. I meant that we would have the conference there obviously, but I didn't say those actual words...and he pulled a surprised face.
On his way out he made a joke about he knows 'it's a nice place for a conference, but I know that's not really what you want it for'.
I'm mortified if he thinks I was dropping hints! Do you think he meant I'm after their spa facilities?
Both married and a huge age gap, he's much older. If that matters?