To think DH must hate me

[Zhan]

I'm was having a wee after waiting a long time and DH told me to turn the tap off. Yesterday he called me period peach because I period all over the mattress.
He's decided to get out on a stag night on my birthday and tonight he put a film on for us and then snapped at me when I tried to make conversation. I feel like he hates talking to me.

No idea what a "period peach" is, but to those saying bleeding on the mattress is "gross" -WTF, i don't think it was intentional. All of our beds have waterproof mattress protectors, because we have dcs.

This guy again. You're just going to get the same answers you got when he sneezed all over your back.

This requires an explanation

OP, you keep posting about him. He sounds awful. You don't sound you like him and he doesn't sound like he likes you. Why would you want to stay together

The examples you have given in this OP aren't that bad in themselves ( all though it depends how he said everything ) but put into context along with all you other posts it paint a picture of a doomed marriage.

Bananamanfan
Glad you are on my page with that. It would seem nobody on here has ever had their period turn up unexpectedly.
I've had a few pairs of pants ruined by it turning up early. Im quite light flow but they got washed/binned.

I read it as OP came on whilst sleeping, no different to me coming on unexpectedly early. Hardly some intentional "I know I'll not use sanitary products" for the hell of it.

Is it a big birthday? If not, surely it's just another day when you're an adult? As long as you see each other and he gives you a card, I really don't see the problem in him going to a stag do on your birthday. What's he going to say to the groom? 'Sorry, I'm not allowed, the other half turns 33 that day'.
My husband regularly takes the Mickey out of me, as I do him. It takes a lot to offend either of us and we certainly never feel like the other hates us.
I'd be irritated if someone chatted over a film we were watching.
Based on these things, I'd say you're possibly overreacting but, if this is a pattern of behaviour that makes you unhappy you should be having words with him.

I wouldn't care if DH went out on my birthday as long as it was remembered at all. And I have a birthday every year, most of DH friends will only marry and have a stag do once.

Talking over a film is annoying- I do it occasionally and DH calls me out on it. Fair enough.

If you know you're due on, and it's heavy, you put a towel or something down.

However, if it's the general pattern of how he is with you, then perhaps there is a problem

He sounds dreadful. If this is only the tip of the iceberg of how he treats you, you need to think seriously about ending the relationship.

How old is he? He sounds about 14. You haven't been married very long have you? What attracted you to him, has he any good points, because he sounds quite awful tbh. He is shaming you for the most basic bodily functions, what a twat, I'm sure in his own head he must think he's hilarious though.

Period Peach?

I agree with those posters that spoke about your period on the mattress being accidents. Never done intentionally so very insensitive for someone to make a comment like that! Period Peach!
And I remember the post about this guy sneezing on you OP and thinking it was hilarious!
What a twat!
How long have the two of you been together? Do you like him?

I had very heavy periods and had to sleep on a towel and change completely in the night. Dh never said anything about it, apart from sympathy as I felt ill and sad.
Can you arrange to do something with a friend for your birthday?
It's not you it's him. He's awful.
Thundercunt! Never heard that before, but I agree.

Zhan

It doesn't matter how many times you post about this awful man and his disgusting treatment of you - the answers are always going to be the same - get rid of him.

Wtf is a period peach??

Just read your other threads and he sounds so horrible, you deserve so much better than this. Hope you find it within yourself to leave