To think I might be being taken for a mug?

[firstnightwemet]

I've been seeing someone, not for very long and I do really like him.

He's posted 2 snapchats today of him with another woman.

I don't want to outright ask him who she is because then the jealousy controlling label gets stuck to you.

I've been badly burnt in the past so it's made me think the worst.

I'm sat here crying like an idiot so please be kind.

He's just posted another snap and he's with a couple of male friends now so at least it's not just them two having a cosy night in I guess.

OK, so two months after having started dating someone I met online there is no way I would assume we were exclusive unless that had been stated/agreed.

Like I said I really like this man and I wouldn't want to jepodise that.

Well, at the very least - he doesn't care about jeopardising anything.

Sounds like he's having a great night, what with taking time out from it to take photos, and upload them to social media, showing what a great time he's having.

I'm approaching middle-age, but I don't know any men who do this.

What I'm saying is, he sounds a little immature and annoying.

I'd be withdrawing a bit, personally.

We're probably a bit past it and don't 'get it' rascals.

To be fair, I'm always a bit at anyone who spends their night out, uploading it to social media. Get off your phone, and talk to your mates - it's more fun!

I do get what you mean.

My younger counsin posted so many snapchats whilst at a concert and I just thought ... why can't you just enjoy that moment. But he's 11. This man is 30.