Not really a a.i.b.u but posting for traffic here. I attended a colleagues wedding last week. Roughly with 15 or so fellow collegues. Two female co workers came out to a couple of other co.workers. and said they had been together 8 weeks. Obviously it for round at the party........ . They still kept it hush hush in work but the info trickled into senior management. They were asked and admitted. No big deal, didn't seem to concern management and they certainly didn't judge. But at the same time they needed to know. Anyhoo the two ladies made it social media official same night. Now a week later they are confronting all the people who attended said party. Wanting to know who told on them. Both ladies are in late 30s early 40s but are going around quite aggressively towards people demanding to know the truth. I am next on the hit list. (Have been off on annual leave so far) I did not tell management as why would I? Bit did mention it to someone else. I mean it is normal when office relationships start up for it to be hot gods for a day or two........ so I'm just wondering how to answer when I get approached. I can be quite out spoken and smart arsed. Don't want for it to get arsey/argumentative. A.i.b.u for telling them to piss off? It's the way they are doing people thag has my back up........ the way I look at it it's out now..... what's the big deal?