Bit of background.
I had MH issues that started around 12/3 with what presented at the time as 'normal' teen angst, it spiralled and got out of control, my behavior at times was frankly appalling. I saw phycologists, psychiatrist, CPN, ss were involved, problems continued right until now (early 40's) however I have learned to manage them. I've bounced around a few diagnosis over the years but whatever it is, citalopram works the best and I have support from friends and family. I am stable.
My daughter has just started to exhibit some of the same traits I did at her age (13) she knows and understands about my MH problems, and has been affected by them, but only in the sense she has spent time living with her DGM when in the past I have been unwell - this has been a family decision, and once I had recovered enough that DM and myself felt that DD wouldn't be affected, she'd come home.
She's still loving and affectionate towards me, but she spends so much time alone, like I used to want to. She cries very easily, she has awful mood swings and she is pushing boundaries, getting into a bit of trouble at school for bad attitude and grades are slipping.
I know what I have just described is considered 'normal' teen behaviour, but it's just all so horribly familiar, it's how I started and I can't bear the thought of her feeling those awful and desolate feelings I did, and putting herself in danger the way I did sometimes. I'm terrified she's going the same way I did, that she's inherited or absorbed it along the way and that I should have protected her from this more.
Am I overreacting to teen behavior? Or should I be more proactive now in trying to get her some help?
Sorry I know it's long.