I don't get it. You either like someone or you don't. If you do, great, have a chat, meet up, be friends. If you don't, ignore or be polite and move on.
But what about the in between. So you are friends. You chat, occasionally socialise. Then they aren't so friendly and you think you must have done something, but you know you haven't so you let them get on with it. Then they become chatty and friendly again. You figure you imagined the unfriendliness. But here we are again when it's quite obvious. The change in tone from greeting someone else (perfectly normal) to you (definite lack of enthusiasm), the standing elsewhere, not speaking when they usually would have done. Perfectly fine until you went over then didn't say another word. All noticed by someone else as well so you know you aren't being paranoid (although she thought it was directed at her until I pointed out this person is perfectly friendly to her, it's when I'm there the frostiness comes across). Just do one!
I can't stand this shit. I'm in my 40s, too old for playground rubbish. This person isn't exactly known for not speaking their mind so god knows what the fuck the problem is if they won't actually say. I actually don't care if they like me or doesn't want to be friendly, it's the hot and cold that annoys me.
Are many people actually like this though?