Basically me and my partner went to look at prams and I felt like they were all so big and bulky and square shaped. Anyhow we arrived at one shop and I fell in love with the oyster 2 with the tan handles.
Anyhow we decided we would buy a second hand pram as we don't have massive funds available so I looked on eBay and it was agreed we didn't need to rush into it as we have no storage space but if a bargain appeared we would get it.
Fast forward a month and my partner tagged me in a post from his friend selling a silvercross pioneer, I said I would look into the pram and he replied saying we could look at it that evening. Well that evening he arrived home and said let's go have a look and I said I don't think it's a massive bargain as it's not what I was after so unless we got it a lot cheaper then it's not really a bargain for us. 1 hour later he had been to the house told me all about how pristine there house was and that was it he had messaged his friend to say he would have the pram and collect it the next day. At this point I didn't know what to say because he was so stuck in the moment of how lovely there home was and the pram was in such good condition that I didn't feel like anything I could say would change his mind.
He picks the pram up and take its to his mums and then the next morning he took me round to look at it. I put on a pretend smile and just had a quick look feeling very uncomfortable knowing it wasn't the pram I wanted and had his mum there saying how lovely it was and what a bargain we got.
I walked out the house after and just drove off in my car crying my eyes out (hormones). I spoke to my friend who said I need to tell my partner how I feel so I did. I told him I didn't dislike the pram it's a nice colour it's just far bigger than I wanted and a lot more bulky than I wanted.
He has since been very snappy and basically said well it if u want and so tomorrow I have a friend coming to look at it. He has picked the pram up from his mums brought it here and done nothing but have a go at me since. Telling me I made the decision I didn't like it before I even looked at it. I'm just wanting to waste money and spend more on a oyster when there no were near as nice as the silvercross pioneer.
Am I being unreasonable?
Or am I allowed to already have had a pram in mind and not rushed into buying one as I felt we needed to keep looking till we found our perfect pram together.