cutting off my nose to spite my face?

[PuppyDogsTails]

I am very upset and cross with my husband for changing plans several times during the course of an evening out. I am suffering with depression and anxiety at the mo and I can get my head around a stressfull situaltion ie an evening out with friends if I know the plan.
We wound up going home early and he has come to me in apologetic mode, saying in so many words he wants to f*ck me. I said that it doesn't work like that but we are ttc.
So am I spiteing him but only hurting me?

Doesn't sound like you're really in the right frame of mind for making love with your husband.
I think you and he need to have a discussion about how you felt tonight, but probably tomorrow.
Try and get some rest tonight if you can.

VB is right you are not in the right frame of mind. I'd talk to him and explain how he mad you feel and how the depression is affecting your life at the moment. Tell him you need his support in this area of your life a lot at the moment and that ttc can move to the second step until you and dh can move forward in your relationship together bearing in mind that depression and anxiety is a very difficult illness to over come.