DBro and his girlfriend are currently looking round hospitals to have their baby. This is not her first pregnancy. I understand that this is their decision to make and I should keep out of it, which I am, but...
She has chosen a hospital quite far away from their house, and is adamant that is where she is going to have their baby. Doesn't affect any of us at all in the slightest, except this is the place where just WEEKS ago my best friend gave birth to a perfectly healthy but stillborn baby. There are ongoing investigations but there are serious concerns as to how the hospital treated my friend and it although the results of the investigation are going to be months away, there is no argument that the hospital did not cause the death of the baby. There were no less than seven opportunities throughout the pregnancy that could have prevented the stillbirth, and several people missed them.
My DBro knows this is the hospital where my friend lost her baby, but doesn't know the ins and outs. His girlfriend can be very stubborn and nothing will change her mind. I want to sit down and talk to her about this but it is none of my business and she doesn't really like me anyway and I don't think she will listen to my concerns (or my brothers). But if I say nothing and something goes wrong I couldn't live with the guilt.
What the fuck do I do?! WIBU to tell her and risk her accusing me of interfering and potentially cutting me out of my nieces life? Because this is what she is likely to do!