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To not invite these people to my party?

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Tommy · 17/04/2017 22:57

Have a big birthday coming up and there are 2 people who I feel I "should" invite but don't really want to. One is very annoying and always gets drunk and had a racist boyfriend and the other is someone with whom I have a minor falling out over the past few months but will be very offended if I don't invite her and probably never speak to me again
DH is very matter of fact about it all and says I shouldn't invite them if I don't want to but I'm a bit concerned about the fall-out when the realise I have had a party and not invited them.
Is it worth the post party rows? Or should I just invite them to keep them happy?

OP posts:
citychick · 18/04/2017 08:40

the op could word it ant way she wants i dont know the details but the partner may get upset about her partner being left out
personally if i was invited to a birthday party but OH was not because of host's dislike for him and i was informed why i would not attend .

i would show loyalty to my oH
iyswim.

Tommy · 18/04/2017 09:11

Lots of interesting food for thought here - thanks all. Still not sure what to do though.....Confused

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Aeroflotgirl · 18/04/2017 09:14

Sounds like your not close to them anyway, don't invite them. If they don't speak to you, so what. They don't sound like good friends.

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