We recently visited my DH's family and whilst we we're there they were v rude to me and on one occasion threatened me. Whilst we all knew that it was an empty threat (the sil in question wouldn't manage to kill me if her life depended on it) I was really upset because no-one told her off or said anything. I have spent the last 7 years taking no end of shite from his family and have finally snapped.
I want him to tell his mum that I'm really upset with the way his sisters were with me and to request them to be civil (if nice isn't an option)and if they can't I've told him my dd & I aren't going to visit any more and they have to travel over here if they want to see her. but we have just spent the last 3 weeks arguing about it he finally accept they weren't nice but this morning his mum rang and it was the perfect opportunity to bring it up and he didn't. he came up with shamefull excuses why not and I have just flipped my lid at him talking about leaving him (won't happen but I want him to see how much this is upsetting me.)