Dp is essentially a good guy. Sometimes we struggle to get on but on the whole he is kind and caring. My issue is with his attitude to drink. He doesn't drink all the time, mostly during the week we won't drink at all, and some weekends too. However sometimes he'll go out and get so shitfaced he doesn't know what he's doing. He doesn't seem to have an off button. This will be maybe once every month - month and a half or so so not all the time, but I really hate it. He slurs, falls over, throws up and often starts being horrible to me. He's always sorry the next day, but essentially doesn't see an issue with it as it's not all the time and he's just having fun. My point is I'm afraid to go to the pub with him in case he gets in this state, others have commented on it and he's really not nice to be around. He thinks I'm unreasonable, so I'm not sure! No dc to look after, just us. aibu?