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More of a WWUD- sleepover

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BeesButterflies · 14/04/2017 15:30

DD is 9, she's wants a sleepover with DP's nephew who's 11.
They want to sleep in DD room so they can chat, watch YouTube, play PlayStation etc....what's your thoughts?

OP posts:
Funnyfarmer · 14/04/2017 20:52

*can't

Funnyfarmer · 14/04/2017 20:57

I think this is decision your going to have to make amongst yourselfs. Don't think anyone on here can really help especially as we don't know the dcs.
But I'm sure the 1st few posts was great help🖒

Isadora2007 · 14/04/2017 21:03

I wouldn't see any issue.
When we slept over at friends as a family ds was 11 and slept in with their daughter that he didn't even know that well but got on fab with and she was 12... no issue.

Footle · 14/04/2017 21:19

If he's going through purity, as FunnyFarmer's phone seems to think, it should be OK.

Theresnonamesleft · 14/04/2017 21:24

I don't see the issue. My 11 year is best mates with a 13 year old. They've had countless sleepovers in the same room. They are different genders. They watch movies. Play on the ps. Have a chat and a laugh.

Funnyfarmer · 14/04/2017 21:31

Oh my. My phone hates me. It's trying to ruin my mn cred.Blush

HarryPottersMagicWand · 14/04/2017 21:44

Acutally I wouldn't do it.

I was 10, as was my cousin who I was close to and he stayed over. He got me to get into his bed and he was cuddling me closely, I felt very uncomfortable but didn't say anything. We heard someone coming upstairs so I leapt out quickly and went bafk to my own bed. He tried to get me to come back but I wouldn't.

Another timeI was at same cousins house with him and a friend, my aunt had gone out and left us home alone. My cousin and friend were whispering then they got me to go upstairs in a 'last one is a loser' type thing, then it was the same thing to get on the bed. Cousins friend got on top on me and was hugging and kissing me. This went on for a while in between me getting up and having the same 'game' to get back on the bed. I was pretty naive. I only had a dressing gown on. Later I got changed and had a very short nightdress on and cousin and his friend were commenting on how it would have been better if I had been wearing that.

We were all around the ages on the OP. No one would ever have thought anything, me and cousin were close.

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