I am in the midst of a messy divorce from emotionally abusive h. I left the family home because his erratic and angry behaviour was too stressful. Ive now been at my parents for about a month. He wont communicate about money or make any commitment about moving out of the house. A solicitors letter i received late last night said he's going to contact me today so he can see the children. I cant allow this because i dont trust him and by allowing him to see the boys ill negate my court case. What can i say when he contacts me to avoid escalating the problem? How can i say no whilst appearing to not be unreasonable? I am very worried.