about anonymous malicious social service reports?

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i have had 6 vindictive malicious reports made about me via the nspcc website to the point i had police banging at my door accusing me of child abuse.

they have all been made completely anonymously and the maker has not even put their details on the form. i also happen to have an ex with a conviction for dv against me last month and the mess that comes from that situation when theres two kids involved.

aibu to think these "anonymous" calls can be traced or is there literally no way?

If the police have reason to suspect him wouldn't it be nice if they paid him a visit and confiscated his computer for testing to see if he has been making malicious and time wasting allegations?

I'm sure he'll come to court with major concerns about your parenting. The number of referrals with no need for further action should work in your favour though.

Do you have an Independent Domestic Violence Advocate?

i do, in fact i have 2! one who deals with practicle issues and the other is more of a support person.

Are you able to relocate?

whats the betting hes going to Hve major concerns about my parenting when we go to court?

High, I'm afraid. It's another subtle way of emotionally abusing you. Easier said than done I know, but try not to rise to it.
My advice to you is the same point I made to my ex when he started this trick years ago, if he's that concerned about my parenting, why is he more than happy to let me have sole custody of the DCs? Any proper ex who thinks the RP isn't up to the job of being a parent would be banging down the doors of a family lawyer to help asap. They don't. They just want to keep you worrying.

Re the anonymous reports, even school ones are anonymous now, we had reports made about us when we split, I knew it was the teacher because of what was said in the report, thankfully it never went further than the HV and my only gripe was I wished they'd go after the real parents who abuse their DCs with as much finesse as they did me over a bloody eczema flare up!
It's quite easy to trace anonymous reports through IPs nowadays and given the police are turning up at your door I'd be questioning whether that can be classed as wasting police time given they found all is well when you answered.

Chin up OP.