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I just lost my shit on the bus

102 replies

OrangeIsTheNewPop · 03/04/2017 14:34

So I managed to keep it in throughout the "watch where you're going" comments and the sniggering (I walk with a white cane) from the fucknuggets sitting in the space reserved for wheelchairs (yup...one of THOSE threads...bear with). I stood near the front as the bus was nearly full.

A lady in a wheelchair got on. More fucking heckles, followed by refusals to move by the group (three lads, one girl). Comments such as:

"I've paid for my seat the same as you"

"You've already got a seat" (I shit you not!!!)

I KNOW I should have minded my own business- but I'd had it. Really long morning being pissed about by the council, and had been in tears just before I got on the bus.

They ignored the bus driver when he started to intervene.

I said, "if Ignorant Cuntitis was a disabillity, you'd have every right to sit there!" and some other choice one liners stolen inspired by this site 😂

Does this make me as bad as them?

They moved to the back of the bus in the end. I'm sitting near the middle as I type (hour long bus journey) and I can hear the little wankpots making comments about "the disabled (fucking hate that phrasr, forgive me- I'm quoting them) thinking they own the world". Oh, and the fact that "their fucking type" (they've used the "p" word a few times- I get mistaken as Asian sometimes, I'm actually Jamaican/Italian) can say what we like because the police will protect us!

I hope to God they don't get off at the same bus stop...

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ohfourfoxache · 03/04/2017 15:00

That isn't losing your shit - that's sticking up for yourself Wink

TheMysteriousJackelope · 03/04/2017 15:00

I suggest asking the driver to have someone from the bus station meet you when you get off the bus. In that way the nightmares in the back can't follow you and hassle you along the way. They can also see who they are and possibly look into banning them.

BertsBlanket · 03/04/2017 15:03

If they're still going with the comments, and you have your phone out anyway, can you discretely video them (for the Police, not to post on here)?

Good for you though it was a great comeback!

the disabled (fucking hate that phrasr, forgive me- I'm quoting them) thinking they own the world Yes, don't they just - first come first served for one for one space on the bus. Those greedy disabled Hmm.

MrsXx4 · 03/04/2017 15:04

Ooooh! I get you! Yeah I would kick up too and have them removed from the bus!! x

chitofftheshovel · 03/04/2017 15:05

I've got myself into a few pickles for standing up for myself/those around me. Those times where you just know everyone is thinking the same as you but no one says anything.

But I find it is easier dealt with politely. I totally understand why you went in swearing but it probably didn't help the situation.

Well done though, hope you're ok.

OrangeIsTheNewPop · 03/04/2017 15:06

The bus driver was an asspick too tbh- slung my change at me (I'm not "obviously" VI by loooking at me, so may have to let him off) then made this huge sigh-noise when I fumbled.

I now have Cliff Richard on full blast through my headphones. Feel free to be Cliffist! I'm the only fan I know who's under 40!

NB. If anyone is thinking of travelling to/from/through Stoke, the A34 is a bit mad atm.

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RachelRagged · 03/04/2017 15:10

What BertsBlanket suggested.

YANBU at all OP

FatOldBag · 03/04/2017 15:10

Good on you, they needed to hear it imo. Knobends.

ChrisYoungFuckingRocks · 03/04/2017 15:11

Orange - I've been a Cliff fan since I was a teen - bloody love him Grin. I'm 45 now and still love him.

I would've said something as well. You get to an age and a stage where you don't take no shit from nobody!

When I was catching the same bus into work every morning, there was a young man with Down's Syndrome on the bus. The bus would be absolutely packed, standing room only, but nobody would sit next to him. I had no problem with it, and had a seat every morning Grin. Him and I would have nice chats and became friends. People can be such assholes!!!!

OrangeIsTheNewPop · 03/04/2017 15:13

And Geek if I'd seen the words Sinai peninsular on a screen, I would have thought it was an STD- I really am that dumb! I can play "Flight of the Bumblebee" backwards, but Geography? Total dustball

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OrangeIsTheNewPop · 03/04/2017 15:19

I have to say, it's a good moment when your friend recognizes you on MN and sends you a "you ok?" text. This is one of the advantages of being totally "out" on here in RL. 😂

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peaceloveandbiscuits · 03/04/2017 15:29

Way off topic here, but geek:

The Sinai peninsular IS in Asia though - Egypt is the only country which spans two continents.

Do Turkey and Russia not span both Europe and Asia too?

NotStoppedAllDay · 03/04/2017 15:35

Really? It's only ever here on MN that I have seen this kind of thing mentioned.

splendide · 03/04/2017 15:37

Egypt is the only country which spans two continents.

Russia?

CoughingForWeeks · 03/04/2017 15:39

I've stood up for someone on a crowded bus when he was being verbally abused and threatened by a drunken thug; I was very disappointed that nobody else backed me up and fully bracing myself for a load of abuse about my size from said thug, but he seemed to be so surprised that someone called him on his unacceptable behaviour that he STFU and got off a full 40 minuted before his destination :D

I wouldn't have dared tackle four of them though, OP. You ARE brave Star

chickenowner · 03/04/2017 15:40

Egypt is the only country that spans two continents

Apart from Turkey...

and Russia, as a pp has mentioned.

redexpat · 03/04/2017 15:42

Turkey is in both Europe and Asia.

I think youre awesome for standing up for yourself. And love that youve even added travel news in an update.

ShatnersWig · 03/04/2017 15:43

And Panama

ShatnersWig · 03/04/2017 15:43

And Indonesia

ShatnersWig · 03/04/2017 15:44

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ShatnersWig · 03/04/2017 15:45

That last one should have said And Georgia. But I will stop now. Promise.

dangermouseisace · 03/04/2017 15:47

Star you are awesome OP.

If I'd been on the bus when you said about Ignorant Cuntitus I would have cheered and clapped.

OrangeIsTheNewPop · 03/04/2017 15:47

Omlife...so much geography! 😂😂

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SoulAccount · 03/04/2017 15:48

I'd be calling the police from the bus, giving them the location of bus and next few stops.

They ought to be taken off the bus and done for abuse and hate-speak.

Nasty, nasty people.

LakieLady · 03/04/2017 16:00

YADNBU. You were AWESOME!

If a few more people can get the nerve to stand up to the little scrotes, they may think twice about being so unutterably vile in future.