To have been pissed off by this?

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My sister invited close family member out this weekend as was going to see an events with big group of friends. I had organised it. Family member rattled off everything else she was doing that weekend, she said she would see

I cooly said it was fine, I was going with a big group and just to let me know... normally would have fallen over myself saying doesn't worry at all, not to rush etc etc. She is a bit like an older sister to me - both 20s, no kids.

She seemed bit taken aback by my reaction

Another on the 'not seeing the problem' bench.

It sounds like a perfectly normal exchange to me.

Umm. Yes. OK.

Not seeing what the problem was.

Did she know it was happening - are you annoyed she didnt clear her diary for it?

Does she normally not do anything and sit at home and wait for you to organise something and when you do, she suddenly has lots on?

Etc.

I just read this twice trying to figure out what the problem is?! ....nope....still don't see one!

......that's 2 minutes of my life wasted.... (wink) (wink)

Invitation offered.

Invitation declined.

Reasons given.

Not sure what the issue is?

Where's the op?

Sounds like she a bit miffed that your response was very much casual. Good on you. Self important people do my head in. Don't chase her either. Either she graces you with her presence or you'll be having fun with other friends

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