"Do you mind if I watch porn?"

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I want to avoid adding too much detail but also don't want to give a skewed version.
Last night I was having sex with potential new partner (who I had a previous healthy sexual relationship with) and after sex and me giving oral (him not getting anywhere) etc he said "do you mind if I watch porn?"*

Personally for me this signifies the end of any potential relationship, sexual or otherwise (will remain friends) but I'm being told I'm overreacting.

*it was actually "do you mind if I just watch porn, but apparently he didn't mean to say that and he just wanted it to enhance what we were doing.

AIBU?

HAD he just ejaculated though Queen?

We definitely need to know if he'd already blown. Probably also worth noting if there'd been pre shag drinking as well.

It can be quite hard (or not as the case may be)

'Of course, go right ahead. Do you mind if I shag the next door neighbour whilst you are doing so?'

How about "mind if I watch eastenders/the news/the simpsons" in retort?

Jesus Christ. Not being able to get off with a real life flesh and blood woman in a new relationship without porn? Bad times.

I'd be done after that, it sounds like you're surplus to his requirements.

What's happening here? He's watching porn, and wants you to masturbate him to save using his own wrist. Classy!

Thanks for all the replies!

Just to clarify, he didn't finish either with sex or oral (or at all after his suggestion!)

Really appreciate all the replies because he's convinced I'm blowing it way out of proportion etc but it just boils down to it being a deal breaker for me personally and the last in a line of a few issues.

Thanks again!

You've got to do what works for you op. It's obviously made you feel uncomfortable.

I would just be worried that this would be a usual thing for him. Not so bad when your dating but imagine being married to a man that couldn't cum with you alone.

It would be the end for me.